• Home
  • BOOK SHOP
    • Kylie's Stories
    • Other books by Maria Jordan >
      • Mysterious & Miraculous Book I - News and Reviews
  • BLOGS
    • mar's Desk
    • Inspiration Station
    • Poetic Ponderings
    • marcoujor on Hubpages
  • I Recommend...
  • Contact Me
  marcoujor's musings

mar's Desk

​This multi-topic blog publishes weekly on Wednesdays.
Thank you for the visit and please enjoy the reading.

Home

marcoujor: You Never Know

11/29/2017

20 Comments

 
Picture
In over thirty years of study and practice in nursing, I have worked with every personality style on the spectrum, with the instructors, supervisors and colleagues I have met along the way.

As a new nurse I had a supervisor who was adept at ‘pushing my buttons’. In my first year of work I was late once. On every other day I was between 30-45 minutes early, as I loved to start my shift smoothly, not rushed and able to actually listen to the off-going report.

On this particular day, a major street to work was flooded due to a torrential downpour and my detour took expectedly longer. Upon arrival I was happy to be alive. My reward was a write-up for being two minutes late.
To be fair and objective, this supervisor was genius with patient-care strategies. She was amazingly intuitive with the patients. When listening to her in report, I became stronger and more respectful of her ‘no nonsense’ approach with staff, as patients were her only priority.

“Be kind. Be firm. Be consistent. You may never know the positive impact you have on others. Keep steady in doing the best for your patients and leave your personal troubles at the gate.” And I learned, the hard way, that personal troubles included a random downpour from Mother Nature.
Picture
Image via KimLowe of Pixabay. Click here to view their gallery.
As a clinical nursing instructor, I remain grateful for the experiences I’ve had in the field.  I have been forever influenced by the very best and the very worst I have encountered along the way.

Working with students in the area of behavioral health nursing can cause lots of anxiety, usually due to a fear of the unknown.

“Be kind. Be firm. Be consistent. You may never know the positive impact you have on others. Keep steady in doing the best for your students and leave your personal troubles at the gate.”

Sometimes, when I’m really lucky, a student will tell me how I may have influenced a decision or a crossroads in their education/career before and after graduation. This type of feedback is golden to me. It reminds me of why I truly love my work.

Here are some examples of my ‘you never know’ emails from a couple former students...
I wanted to take a moment and thank you for everything you have taught me about nursing. Behavioral Health was something I have always been interested in, but you made me have more of an interest in it. You taught me so much in our time together. You gave me the inspiration to continue to become a nurse.

Last year, I failed one of my classes. I felt like I couldn't become a nurse because I wasn't smart enough. Even when I felt like giving up I continued on my path to become a nurse, because you had given me such kind words during clinical. You told me how much nursing was the career for me. I ended up getting my minor in psychology.

And now a year later I am retaking the course I failed and am loving it this time. I am still unsure if I will do psych nursing, but it is on my options list. Thank you so much for being an amazing clinical instructor.

I miss spending clinical rotations with you! I know I was a nervous wreck, but I want to thank you for helping me and guiding me through. You truly are an amazing teacher and that is something so special to students, and you have inspired me.

The thought of not being a nursing student has been on my mind for a long time now, and after talking everything through, with you and a few others I trust, I have made a decision. It was certainly tough, especially because I worked so hard to get to where I am today, but I have officially withdrawn from the nursing program. I will, however, start up soon as a psychology major. While this has been a difficult decision to make, I truly feel that in the end it will be best for me. My mindset is to take everything I have learned, and apply it to a new perspective.

Thank you SO much for everything. I am very happy to have met you, because seeing you as a teacher has greatly inspired me. You see the best in people no matter what, and the world needs more of that.
During this season of Thanksgiving, I am grateful to my students - both former and current. I continue to learn so much from these hopeful, creative and inspiring young minds.

In closing I want to share a song that gives me a boost whenever I need to call upon my inner strength, especially in times of uncertainty.​

ShoutOuts

☙ Do we really know each other? Via Martie’s Foyer
☙ Trending now - Hissing Hot Pressure Pot! Via WarnerWords

​Until next week, sending you peace and hugs, mar
20 Comments
<<Previous

    RSS Feed

    Enter your email address:

    Delivered by FeedBurner


    The Web Only Your Site

    Marcoujor

    Welcome to my desk...

    I am a work in progress, so a rule of thumb is to expect the unexpected every week!

    Pull up a comfy chair and make yourself at home.

    Thank you,

    mar  



    Archives

    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    October 2014
    August 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013

    Thanks for Sharing!

    Popular Posts

    On Schizophrenia
    For the Love of Reading
    Kindness Does Not Discriminate
    A Healthy Recipe for a Balanced Life
    Playing the Game of Life
    Behind the Scenes at the Carriage Driver
    Remembering Mary
    How Wonderful
    The Legend of David Bowie
    Resolutions & Revelations
    The Gift of Life in Death
    The Charitable Spirit
    I Recommend
    The Magic of Soul Music
    Thanksgiving Leftovers
    ​Musings on Gratitude
    ​Perfection and Peace
    ​Everlasting Memories
    Adele Saying ''Hello''
    My Hero: Bruce Castor
    The Happiness Habit
    What Matters
    My Health Coach
    Vanity Views
    ​Just a Nurse
    ​Today is a Gift
    Everybody Hurts
    Bathroom Blues
    TIPS on Writing
    Self-Love or Selfish... ?
    The Power of Feedback
    A Balancing Act
    From Alphabets to Artichokes
    Findings on Finger-Labyrinths
    "Tell me a story, Kimmie..."
    Lessons of the Heart
    Sharing a Melody
    The Pleasure of Polarities
    The Ocean and Everything
    Letter to Sunshine
    Take Care of Yourself
    HOME
    GIFT SHOP
    AD SERVICES & SPONSORS
    BLOGS
    CONTACT ME
    I Recommend...
Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.
  • Home
  • BOOK SHOP
    • Kylie's Stories
    • Other books by Maria Jordan >
      • Mysterious & Miraculous Book I - News and Reviews
  • BLOGS
    • mar's Desk
    • Inspiration Station
    • Poetic Ponderings
    • marcoujor on Hubpages
  • I Recommend...
  • Contact Me