As a hungry Couchara clan was heading from church to the luncheon, we were collectively detained by a train, a very long and slow train. I was propelled back to memories of my Dad working as an engineer for Reading Railroad. Sunday’s train encounter, in the rain, reminded me that both of my parents were along for the ride to the Italian restaurant for Adalyn’s party. I instantly smile now when an Italian meal is served without bread. I can remember the 'stink' (a Miss Sammie word) my Dad raised when we were invited to my brother Johnny's home and bread was not on the table. There was bread on the tables at Adalyn’s luncheon, by the way! Yet, this day was so much more than delicious food. This day was filled with the hope and promise of new life. This day was filled with joy, laughter and love across all generations - a perfect antidote for the negativity, trauma and sadness that saturates the news and social media. Sunday evening I read through Mom’s journals to me and thought the following was worth sharing (again), this time for Adalyn Marie and any readers who may need a shot of Miss Sammie’s sage wisdom... “My wishes for you are the best of health always, happiness with whatever life bestows on you and true peace of mind. “Whenever possible, always put away your cares and worries before retiring for the night. Leave your mind free preparing the body for its necessary sleep and rest. A new day will arrive with dawn. “If possible, don't ever betray a friend's confidence. Once that trust is broken the friend loses faith in you. true friendship is forever gone. Some confidences should remain sleeping with you. “You can never have enough knowledge and common sense. By mixing common sense with life's never ending source of knowledge, you form the basis for a well adjusted contented lifestyle. “You can always do without excess baggage which comes in many forms, clutter of possessions crowding you; needless worries that may or may not even happen; and fair weather friends never there when needed.” Congratulations to my nephew, Jared, and his lovely wife, Jenne. Addy is well loved and you are already some of the finest parents I know. This song has been playing in my mental soundtrack lately. Take a listen to this sweet classic... ShoutOutsUntil next week, wishing you wonder and hope,
mar
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Karen
10/11/2017 07:47:46 am
Beautiful, Maria. Thank you❤
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Susie
10/11/2017 11:37:25 am
Just beautiful. With permission, I would like to share some of that advice with my dear Sadie.
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Mike
10/11/2017 11:44:57 am
Hello Maria - Thank you for sharing such a special day. Addy is one lucky girl. You could feel the positive energy that went into this 'news'.
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Shauna
10/11/2017 12:23:29 pm
Congratulations on the newest addition to the Couchara clan, Mar! She comes from a long line of love and wisdom.
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Paula
10/11/2017 02:10:41 pm
Maria, I thank you for taking me along to Angel Addy's Christening! Ohhhh how precious she is. Gimme gimmee gimmee PLEASE, let me hold & hug this perfect child! I'll wait my turn, after all the special family members, especially Gram & Gramp Couchara!
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Dear Maria,
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Hey there, friend! I loved reading the story you shared here and all the symbols and signs that you felt on the day of the baptism. How incredible! I love reading things like this because it gives me such hope in the mystery and in the possibility. I hope the day was perfect for all involved and congrats to Adalyn. And her two names are similar to yours: Marie Couchara. A very special day indeed. :)
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Henry
10/12/2017 05:16:05 am
We had a great time. I loved the bread. Mom and Dad would have loved it.
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Kimmie
10/12/2017 08:08:30 am
Such a lovely post of a very special event that one will carry a lifetime! I loved reading your Mommas words of wisdom and light ❤️ She instilled so many wonderful thoughts into your heart Maria and we are so blessed to hear them!
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10/12/2017 11:15:42 am
Hi Maria...
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10/12/2017 02:46:20 pm
Prof. Mahreer,
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Thanks for help in situating this post and for this visit, dear Ange.
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Gail Sobotkin
10/12/2017 11:48:44 pm
Beautiful family, and I love the way you included your parents in the celebration and words of wisdom from Miss Sammie.
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