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10/11/2017

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​This past Sunday, Adalyn Marie Couchara was baptized, surrounded by loving family and friends.

A steady and gentle rain fell in our neck of the woods this day. While not a meteorologist, I could have predicted this forecast.

Mom always told me that rain was a sign of good luck.  That notion had - and always will have- a powerful effect on me.

Sunday’s rain allowed me to escort Mom, at least in my mind, to the baptism.​
​As a hungry Couchara clan was heading from church to the luncheon, we were collectively detained by a train, a very long and slow train. I was propelled back to memories of my Dad working as an engineer for Reading Railroad.

Sunday’s train encounter, in the rain, reminded me that both of my parents were along for the ride to the Italian restaurant for Adalyn’s party.

I instantly smile now when an Italian meal is served without bread. I can remember the 'stink' (a Miss Sammie word) my Dad raised when we were invited to my brother Johnny's home and bread was not on the table.

There was bread on the tables at Adalyn’s luncheon, by the way!

Yet, this day was so much more than delicious food. This day was filled with the hope and promise of new life. This day was filled with joy, laughter and love across all generations - a perfect antidote for the negativity, trauma and sadness that saturates the news and social media.

Sunday evening I read through Mom’s journals to me and thought the following was worth sharing (again), this time for Adalyn Marie and any readers who may need a shot of Miss Sammie’s sage wisdom...
​“My wishes for you are the best of health always, happiness with whatever life bestows on you and true peace of mind.

“Whenever possible, always put away your cares and worries before retiring for the night. Leave your mind free preparing the body for its necessary sleep and rest. A new day will arrive with dawn.

“If possible, don't ever betray a friend's confidence. Once that trust is broken the friend loses faith in you. true friendship is forever gone. Some confidences should remain sleeping with you.

“You can never have enough knowledge and common sense. By mixing common sense with life's never ending source of knowledge, you form the basis for a well adjusted contented lifestyle.

“You can always do without excess baggage which comes in many forms, clutter of possessions crowding you; needless worries that may or may not even happen; and fair weather friends never there when needed.”
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Adalyn Marie with Dad (Jared) and Mom (Jenne)
​Congratulations to my nephew, Jared, and his lovely wife, Jenne.  Addy is well loved and you are already some of the finest parents I know.

​This song has been playing in my mental soundtrack lately. Take a listen to this sweet classic...


ShoutOuts

☙ The many meanings of the word ‘love’ via Martie’s Foyer
​☙ Winter Prep... Its a Coming via Fireside with Rolly

Until next week, wishing you wonder and hope,

mar
30 Comments
Karen
10/11/2017 07:47:46 am

Beautiful, Maria. Thank you❤

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:37:14 am

Thanks, dear Karen - you are beautiful too! Love, Maria


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Peg link
10/11/2017 08:48:14 am

What a beautiful event you've shared here along with the wisdom of Miss Sammie. Love the Louis Armstrong video, too. Hugs and love.

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:38:16 am

Thanks, dear Peg - I'm happy you enjoyed this post and Louie too.

Love and hugs, Maria

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Vicki link
10/11/2017 11:19:25 am

Dear Mareer,

This was a lovely event for all of you, and the phot is lovely too. I always enjoy ms. sammie's wisdom and comforting words, always so true.
Your video is one of my faves.
Love,
Vickster.

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:39:27 am

Dear Vickster,

Your comments are appreciated and you are loved,

Hugs, Maria

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Susie
10/11/2017 11:37:25 am

Just beautiful. With permission, I would like to share some of that advice with my dear Sadie.

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:40:23 am

Oh Susie,

I'd love you to share this with Sadie. Love ya, mareer

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Mike
10/11/2017 11:44:57 am

Hello Maria - Thank you for sharing such a special day. Addy is one lucky girl. You could feel the positive energy that went into this 'news'.

Listening to Mr. Armstrong now.

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:41:23 am

And we are lucky to have Addy in our family, dear Mike.

Hope you enjoyed this sweet song too!

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Shauna
10/11/2017 12:23:29 pm

Congratulations on the newest addition to the Couchara clan, Mar! She comes from a long line of love and wisdom.

I'm so glad your mom and dad were able to accompany you to the baptism and luncheon. Little Addy's off to a great start!

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:43:13 am

Wonderful to see you, dear Sha.

It was sentimental bringing Mom and Dad to Addy's special day for sure.

Hope you are having a peaceful week. Hugs, mar

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Paula
10/11/2017 02:10:41 pm

Maria, I thank you for taking me along to Angel Addy's Christening! Ohhhh how precious she is. Gimme gimmee gimmee PLEASE, let me hold & hug this perfect child! I'll wait my turn, after all the special family members, especially Gram & Gramp Couchara!
I'm grateful for the shot of Miss Sammie's sage wisdom! Good to go now! Look out world, here I come. Love & hugs, Paula

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Maria link
10/12/2017 05:45:38 am

I had you pegged as a sucker for sweet babies, dear Paula.

Addy is one of the most peaceful babes ever - never even cried when getting her 'watering' at the baptismal font.

Love you lots, Maria

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Sannel link
10/11/2017 03:33:01 pm

Dear Maria,

Thank you for sharing this glorious day and the pictures of this beautiful family. Adalyn Marie Couchara, such a precious, sweet baby she is, and how blessed she is to be part of such an amazing family. :)
As always, Ms. Sammie's wisdom is the icing on the cake, and Mr. Armstrong's, " What a wonderful world", is what I need today. Thank you!
Take care of yourself.
Love and hugs,
Sannel

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Maria link
10/12/2017 06:03:09 am

Thank you, dear Sannel, for your lovely remarks.

This was a beautiful day all around - and this post wrote itself actually... ;)

Love to you and Freddie too, Maria

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Martie link
10/11/2017 06:05:26 pm

Auw, what a beautiful picture of Adalyn Marie with Dad and Mom. May Miss Sammy's advice guides her more and more as she grows.

Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful Couchara event with us, dear Maria.

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Maria link
10/12/2017 06:04:20 am

Thank you, dear Martie - my pleasure. I'm happy you enjoyed this.

Have a relaxing time away with Mr. B. Love you, mar

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Sageleaf link
10/11/2017 09:01:19 pm

Hey there, friend! I loved reading the story you shared here and all the symbols and signs that you felt on the day of the baptism. How incredible! I love reading things like this because it gives me such hope in the mystery and in the possibility. I hope the day was perfect for all involved and congrats to Adalyn. And her two names are similar to yours: Marie Couchara. A very special day indeed. :)

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Maria link
10/12/2017 06:05:47 am

Dear Cynthia,

This was a day of wonder and hope for our family - so glad you enjoyed and thanks for your insights.

Love you and hugs, Maria

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Henry
10/12/2017 05:16:05 am

We had a great time. I loved the bread. Mom and Dad would have loved it.

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Maria link
10/12/2017 06:07:12 am

We had a great time hanging out with you and Janie too, dear Bro.

I think we all loved the bread ... :)

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Kimmie
10/12/2017 08:08:30 am

Such a lovely post of a very special event that one will carry a lifetime! I loved reading your Mommas words of wisdom and light ❤️ She instilled so many wonderful thoughts into your heart Maria and we are so blessed to hear them!
Big hugs
Love you
Kimmie

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Maria link
10/13/2017 09:01:10 am

So lovely to see you, dear Kimmie. Thanks for sharing our family celebration with your visit and wise words.

Love you and hugs, Maria

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Rolly A. Chabot link
10/12/2017 11:15:42 am

Hi Maria...
Great post and Mom was a smart lady indeed and I have to agree with you on all you wrote.
New life into the Kingdom is always a blessing. I have baptized several over the years as a Pastor. It is always a pleasure watching people and their children on such a special day...

Hugs and all from Alberta

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Maria link
10/13/2017 09:05:30 am

Dear Rolly,

I'm thrilled you love my Mom's wise words as much as I do.

I agree that a new life brings us all light and inspiration.

Happy Friday hugs, Maria

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Angelia Phillips link
10/12/2017 02:46:20 pm

Prof. Mahreer,

Big congratulations on the newest member of your family! She's beautiful!!!

I love that your sweet mama's journaling gets included here. It's a wonderful legacy to share with your family, and for the next gen to have and be influenced with.

Beautiful post :)

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Maria link
10/13/2017 09:08:36 am

Thanks for help in situating this post and for this visit, dear Ange.

It's my honor and with love that I share Miss Sammie's wisdom as often and with as many as I can.

Just reading your latest and hope you are feeling 'ever so much better' today. Love and hugs, mar

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Gail Sobotkin
10/12/2017 11:48:44 pm

Beautiful family, and I love the way you included your parents in the celebration and words of wisdom from Miss Sammie.
Love & Hugs,
Gail

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Maria link
10/13/2017 09:10:56 am

Thanks, dear Gail.

I know Mom and Dad were beaming with love and pride of Jared, Jenne and sweet Adalyn Marie from above.

Sending you and Fred my love and hugs, Maria

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