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marcoujor: About Andy

2/7/2018

Have you ever looked into someone’s eyes and known, without a shadow of a doubt, that things would get better…?

The last couple weeks have been emptier on the homefront after the expected loss of our beloved Zoey.

I’m sure Andy didn’t understand the details of why his sister got so sick, went for a ride and never came home … it was difficult enough for my husband and me to grasp.

What our three year old boy lacked in knowledge, he has more than made up for in compassionate intuition.

For the last couple weeks, Andy has given both of his parents equal time in the cuddles and play departments - all the while becoming a ‘little man’ overnight.

”And maybe that was how it was supposed to be...Joy and sadness were part of the package; the trick, perhaps, was to let yourself feel all of it, but to hold on to the joy just a little more tightly.” Kristin Hannah

I got this email from a dear friend…

Dear Maria,

Please thank Andy for taking such good care of his beautiful Mom. I’m so glad that Andy is in your and Geoff’s life, especially now at this sad time. I’m sure he’s trying his doggone best to be goofy and silly just to give his Mom and Dad a reason to smile.

Take care now, dear friend and have yourself a safe and lovely day.

Love and hugs,

Sannel and Freddie

So, THANK YOU, Andy…

…for helping your Mommy and Dad hang on to the joy you so freely share, and yes, of course, we can listen to some of our happy music.

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☙ The powerful leverage of the minority via Martie’s Foyer

☙ Hope And Optimism...Not the same via WarnerWords

☙ Yukons Colourful 5%... Whiskey Jake via Fireside with Rolly

Until next week, wishing you peace,

mar

22 Comments

Peg Cole link

2/7/2018 08:53:02 am

Andy is such a handsome boy and his sister was beautiful. They seem to know just how to comfort and soothe us, even in spite of their own losses. My heart goes out to you and your lovely family at this difficult time. Love you.

Maria link

2/7/2018 09:17:25 pm

So true, dear Peg. Thank you for your compassion and warmth at this time.

Love you too, Maria

Mike Friedman

2/7/2018 10:13:55 am

Hello Maria - Yes this is a sad time. Your family suffered a great loss. Andy is doing his best to corral the home's happiness. You all will survive. hugs

Maria link

2/7/2018 09:20:10 pm

Yes, Mike - Andy is doing a herculean job in the happiness department.

Hugs to you, Maria

paula

2/7/2018 10:34:13 am

Oh, Maria...It doesn't get more touching than this. Of course Andy feels every vibe of the emotions running rampant within you and Geoff. And even though Andy feels sad & confused by the sudden loss of his sister, he's determined to bring some joy into your home, because he needs to see you smile, most of all.
There's so much to be noted & appreciated in the immense love & loyalty given by our fur babies, it's hard to describe. For now, I can think of one word.....AMAZING. Love, Paula

Maria link

2/7/2018 09:27:55 pm

Your comment is spot on - rather AMAZING in itself, dear Paula.

Love you and your big heart, Maria

Martie link

2/7/2018 12:47:47 pm

Auw, Maria, getting used to the permanent absence of a beloved is surely one of the most difficult challenges to meet in this life. Music is a perfect comforter. Beautiful videos in here!

Sannel's message is heartwarming!

Please give Andy a hug on my behalf ♥

Hugs,
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Martie

Maria link

2/7/2018 09:31:32 pm

I'd be lost for sure without my music, dear Martie ... glad you enjoyed these selections as well.

Thanks for the love and the hugs - Andy and I are doggone happy you are in our world. Love you, mar

Rich Rumple link

2/7/2018 02:54:18 pm

Life is filled with new beginnings. Recognizing them when they occur can be one of our greatest joys. That's why we have to go through life with our eyes open. Too often, people close them and concentrate only on the visions in their mind. They live in a past life, constantly focusing only on the sadness they experienced. Perhaps, if they'd open their eyes and see the beauty of what surrounded them, we'd find an end to the depression epidemic the world over. As cliche as it may sound, one has to have the bad to appreciate the good. The depths we sink to when we've lost a loved member of the family are lower than the deepest oceans. Yet, the highs we experience when we find new happiness in love are higher than the highest cloud. So, life is an emotional roller coaster. All we can do is hang on to our seats and enjoy the ride. But, you know all this already. Enjoy what Andy brings to you and relish in his love. He needs you as much as you need him. Oh, and don't forget "Love Can Make You Happy" by Mercy, "If You Want To Be Happy" by Jimmy Soul, and "Shiny Happy People" by R.E.M. Enjoy, Sis!

Maria link

2/7/2018 09:34:42 pm

Love your wise perspectives and life philosophy, dear Bro.

You've also made some wonderful musical choices - thanks for this meaningful comment.

Love you lots, Sis

Rolly A. Chabot link

2/7/2018 04:18:31 pm

Hi Mar and Geoff...
I know the pain of your recent loss, we pet owners are faced with some hard decisions at times.
I am so glad that you have Andy there to comfort you and he is looking after Mom and Dad. Pets are so intuitive are they not I am certain Andy misses his sister as well.
I had Quigley cremated and her remains have an honoured place on the mantle above the fireplace. Now Angel has taken the empty spot and she is like a magnet and always near by. Always there to greet me with a silly looking kitty toy I bought.

Hugs as always from the deepfreeze

Maria link

2/7/2018 09:49:55 pm

Dear Rolly,

Your remarks are so kind and understanding - thank you.

I'm so happy you have dear Angel, who has taken over your world.

I'm sure Quigley has made the best of friends with Zoey, Aunt Baby and Alvin.

Stay warm and sending lots of hugs your way, Maria

Cynthia link

2/7/2018 06:31:31 pm

I'm listening to "Happy" as I type this...actually I listened to all the videos you put here and love every one of those songs. Great taste in music.
As for Andy, you know, I've always thought that animals have this "otherworldly" sense of things. Andy's connected to you all and it's like he knew it was time to step up and occupy a "bigger space" to help your adjustment with Zoey. Though I'm sure he feels his own sadness at her absence.
I'm thinking of you both. Sending you wishes of light and love and the knowledge that your Zoey will always be with you: she's left an imprint on your heart. 💝

Maria link

2/7/2018 10:05:20 pm

Thank you for such a comforting message, dear Cynthia.

I totally agree with your take on our animals - and am 'happy' that you enjoyed my songs this week.

Love and hugs to you, Maria

Gail Sobotkin

2/7/2018 11:59:39 pm

Dear Maria,
This was beautiful and really touched my heart. So sad that you and Geoff lost sweet Zoey, but glad that you still have Andy to brighten up your days, and also bring some much needed moments of comfort.
Love and Hugs, Gail

Maria link

2/12/2018 10:51:20 am

Thanks for these comforting thoughts, dear Gail.

Sending our love to you and Fred.
Hugs,
Maria

Angelia link

2/8/2018 12:56:32 pm

Prof. Mahreer,

I'm glad Andy's doing a wonderful job at space-filling. I imagine it's as much comfort for him to help with his grieving as it is for you and Chef Geoff. 💗

Maria link

2/12/2018 10:53:00 am

Yup, we are all mutually benefitting from our unconditional love of each other, dear Ange.

Love you and thank you, mar

Sannel link

2/9/2018 01:26:39 pm

Dear Maria,

I'm so glad that you have Andy in your life giving you comfort at this time of sadness. He's doing a wonderful job, even though he's missing his sister so much.
Thank you for a touching and very beautiful read, my friend.
Our love and warm hugs from a snow covered and freezing Sweden.
Sannel and Freddie

Maria link

2/12/2018 10:58:25 am

Thanks for your understanding and ongoing friendship, dear Sannel.

Sending you and Freddie our love and hugs from PA.

Have a LOVEly week. Hugs, Maria

Vicki link

2/9/2018 01:57:27 pm

Dear Mareer,

Dogs are so sensitive to the needs of humans, and no doubt rascal Andy knows just how you and Geoff should "feel", vibes-wise, so he's taken on the task of restoring both of you until you all feel right again. Love that impish dawg of yours, and his sister was such a beautiful sweetheart.
Your videos are lovely. This is a process, and I know you'll come though it when it feels right.
Love and hugs,
Vickster

Maria link

2/12/2018 11:00:24 am

Such a wise and insightful comment, just like you, dear Vickster.

With beautiful folks like you in my corner, I know everything will be alright.

Love you and big hugs, mareer

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