![]() While it’s taken some years, I am readily able to recognize my limits--both physically and emotionally. As with most things in life, the emotional aspect has been way more of a challenge. I frequently tell others, “Be gentle with yourself.” This month I remember my mother who would frequently tell me to “Go easy, Mareer.” Part of being gentle with myself is...
Remembering Mom (May 28, 1927 - May 7, 2010)Remembering Aunt Baby (May 4, 2004 - May 29, 2014)ShoutOutsUntil next week, be gentle with yourself,
mar
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It is so difficult to accept our limitations at times. As I get older I'm not able to do so many of the things I took for granted years ago. When I visit Mom and her sister, I'm reminded to be grateful that I can still do everyday activities that are easy to take for granted. Hugs and thoughts go out to you during this difficult time of the year in remembering your Mom.
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Dear Mareer,
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Dearest Mar, I missed your post last week, but knew you had a good reason to let it go. We often find ourselves in a situation where we are compelled to be gentle with ourselves. Only the wise among us manage to do it. I am not always among the wise, and that is why I need friends like you to remind me what I am supposed to do.
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Mike
5/10/2017 01:06:35 pm
Hello mar - There is a good deal of wisdom packed in this brief edition of mar's desk. We all seem to be looking in all directions, we are all going slower. As for words, I don't remember any bruises I have suffered, but I do remember some hurtful words thrown in my direction. You carry your Mother's love in your heart. That love may feel heavy, but that is because there was so much of it.
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5/10/2017 10:22:41 pm
This is excellent, dear lady. Your mother was quite wise and so are you. Those steps to staying calm and self-acceptant (and more acceptant of others, in the process) are so right!
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Hi Maria...
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Dear Rolly,
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Marie. I appreciate the reminder...so Thank you to both you and Sammie. The reality is, we're keenly aware when we need to slow down and be gentle with ourselves, but do we always listen?
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Dear Maria,
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Your comment feels like we are sharing a cup of tea, dear Sannel. Thanks for your words of comfort.
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Kelly byrnes Trusdell
5/15/2017 04:07:10 pm
So glad I visited this has put NY mind at ease.
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5/15/2017 04:28:23 pm
Prof. Mahreer,
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Shauna
6/13/2017 02:09:30 pm
Mar, I'm in the same place as you in my psyche. Now, at age 60, I'm all about going easy. I especially relate to your first bullet point. I steer clear of or at least limit my time with people and situations that bring stress and strife to my life. I'm also getting a good grasp on your second bullet point. I don't let much bother me anymore.
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Dear Sha,
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