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9/23/2015

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I have wanted to be a nurse since I was a little girl. As a nurse for the past 32 years, I've never regretted following my childhood dream...

I had another dream that I never confided to anyone. Time to set the record straight!

I yearned to walk down the aisle of the Miss America pageant - wearing the crown and holding the roses. I practiced every year as I watched the competition.

Usually after the first half hour, my family would excuse themselves for 'bed' - yet I was a die hard, along with my teddy bear. I had my winning shawl (a fuzzy blanket) ready to don...

Over the years, I gave up this dream. I even gave up watching the Miss America show. The talent part of the competition was out of my league - at least in my adolescent mind.

I never gave up on nursing, proudly graduating and passing my State Boards in May, 1983.
This week I've had to do some catching up on social media. While this is not my first priority, I had to check out Kelley Johnson, RN - Miss Colorado and second runner up in the 2016 Miss America competition, held on September at the Boardwalk Hall Arena in Atlantic City, New Jersey.

I don't choose to give my view on the comments of two irresponsible co-hosts on "The View" about Kelley Johnson's, Miss Colorado, talent monologue.

Kelley is a beautiful woman, starting from within. She is a heart nurse as you can tell from this video:

I may have missed this monologue entirely as I no longer 'need' to watch The Miss America pageant.

Now, the media's 'talent' is putting a negative spin on every story they sink their fangs into.
So, to me, "The View" ended up giving the profession of nursing an overdue bolster in appreciation and reputation - quite unintentionally.

The overwhelming show of support from thousands of nurses, as well as physicians and grateful patients feels just and right. Even the American Nurse's Association has weighed in - after prompt apologies from these sheepish co-hosts.

It's 'preaching to the choir' as far as I'm concerned. In this case, I love the song and can never hear it too many times.

"Nurses are life savers". I cannot think of a more honorable and noble profession on the planet.
And thanks to Kelley Johnson, crowned second runner up in Miss America 2016, every nurse in our country holds this title as well.

As for me, my 'second' childhood dream has finally come true...and the talent piece of the show no longer intimidates me.

Today and every day - thank a nurse who has made a positive difference in your life.

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Have a peaceful week and see you next Wednesday.

Hugs, mar

23 Comments

Peg link

9/23/2015 09:11:00 am

Bravo to you and all nurses, Mar. These are earth-bound angels whose dedication and perseverance in times of need go far beyond the call of duty. I was truly appalled at the rude and thoughtless remarks that were made by the hosts on that show about the contestant who is a nurse. Very sad that these talking heads have so much influence on the everyday person when their talents mostly involve spreading gossip and misinformation.

Maria link

9/23/2015 01:41:09 pm

Love your comments, Sista Peg.
At this point in life, the only "Talking Heads" I want to listen to are on the radio.
Love you too, mar

Sunshine

9/23/2015 09:23:12 am

I have said it many times and I will continue to say that nurses are earth angels, I have yet to encounter a nurse that I did not want to hug and I am not a hugger! Thank you for being a nurse! Hugs!! :)

Maria link

9/23/2015 01:45:05 pm

I can feel your hugs and the glorious Sunshine you've sent to PA.
Love and thanks,
MM

Mary link

9/23/2015 09:54:40 am

Dearest Mar,
This was such a wonderful thing to see. Kelly is a woman of courage and dedication. Watching her sit there with her nurse's blues amidst the gowns was itself an inspiration!
Who hasn't known a nurse that has given them more care and information than the doctor who was supposed to be taking care of them? Who hasn't had a friend that is a nurse and always willing to help when you need them?
Preaching to the choir? Certainly we do, but we can never appreciate our wonderful nurses enough. Bless you GF.

Vicki

9/23/2015 11:19:01 am

Dear Maria,
Several of my most- loved people I life are nurses. They're all very special, and that includes you!
Lovely article - your teddy bear is hip and adorable. No wonder you've kept him/her all this time!
Yep, you and all lovely nurses deserve a tip in your jar! That's my VIEW!

Mike

9/23/2015 01:07:38 pm

Thank you. Now that is said. Kelley Johnson made a bold move there. At least she did not ask for World Peace. Nursing is a bold move for all with the courage and strength to shoulder the stream of human sadness that is sure to come their way.

'Hopes of Miss America' - there is still time!

Maria link

9/23/2015 01:59:58 pm

Weebly is acting wobbly so I'm trying to comment in this collective manner:

Mary, I've long regarded you as a surrogate nurse so your feedback touches my heart. Thanks, my friend.

Thanks for noticing my hip teddy bear, who is now 50 years young, dear Vicki. His name is Brown Baby...just love to have BABY in my name choices even after all these years. Thanks for your tip too- you're one lovely lady.

Mike, are you trying to make me giggle myself into a stupor- you should hear the comments from my sister.

Love and thanks to you all for stopping by, mar

paula jamison link

9/23/2015 04:11:23 pm

Maria......."Nurses" are some of my favorite people! As you know, I have a very special (and precious) person in my heart, who has always been my most favorite nurse of all. My sister, Pat was an extraordinary nurse.....And since meeting you, my lovely lady, I now have TWO favorite nurses in my heart!! Love ya, Paula

Maria link

9/24/2015 06:06:57 am

Paula,
Your comments mean the world to me.
Thanks from my heart, my dear friend.
Love, Maria

Angie

9/23/2015 06:15:13 pm

Hi, Maria! I'm glad you posted this - I don't watch Miss America anymore, but I have seen the clip on social media of the nurse's monologue! Now THAT is talent!

I've had my share of nurses who tended to me and my babies (all 7 were born in the hospital as well as 3 miscarriages.) I experienced wonderful care from people who were just meant to be nurses - it was a natural choice for these caring personalities.

A big THANK YOU from me to them and to you as well, Nurse Maria...

~Angie

Maria link

9/24/2015 06:10:54 am

Maternity nurses are beautiful~ thrilled that your experiences are so positive, dear Angie.
Your visit and comments are most appreciated.
Hugs, Maria

Lois W. Stern link

9/23/2015 08:44:54 pm

When I need a reference for an M.D. specialist, I first go to one of my nurse friends for a recommendation. They are the ones who seem to have the best handle on the capabilities of the docs they work with. Bravo for the nurses!

Maria link

9/24/2015 06:13:59 am

Love this feedback, Lois.
Nurses have a special way of explaining what's going on with a compassionate voice.
Have a great day and thanks for stopping by.

Gail Sobotkin

9/24/2015 09:05:12 am

Well said, Maria.
You exemplify the best of the nursing profession and are beautiful in every way.
I'm so glad you're teaching a whole new generation of nurses (of all ages) the core qualities that every nurse needs to have---first and foremost, heart, followed by the ever increasing knowledge and responsibility required in this challenging profession.
Am posting this on my Facebook page.
Love and Hugs,
Gail

Maria link

9/25/2015 11:15:35 am

You are one of the finest nurses I know, dear Gail~ so your remarks mean the world to me.
Thanks for the share and for being such an inspiration to me.
Love you and hugs, Maria

femmeflashpoint link

9/24/2015 11:31:10 pm

Dear Prof. Mahreer,

I've never had an interest in pageants, but if I did, I'd have voted for Kelley Johnson to win, because she IS a nurse.

The classless and clueless comments from the entertainers (sarcastic description) of The View are indicative of their own lacking in more areas than I have the energy to write out.

To do what Kelley does took (real) hard work in achieving her current work station. To maintain it takes dedication, wisdom, confidence and courage.

Perhaps the "entertainers" employed by The View made their comments because they felt threatened by Kelley's superiority. After all, she effortlessly outclasses them all the way from the hem of her scrubs to the ear-buds on her stethoscope.

femme

Maria link

9/25/2015 11:18:41 am

I love the passion in your comment, as any nurse who read it would, dear femme.
Thanks for taking time to make such a beautiful addition to this post.
Love ya, mar

Shauna

9/26/2015 07:08:04 pm

Kelley Johnson laid some very powerful words on America. Nurses are life savers. They're friends and holders of the soul when we are at our most vulnerable.

My dear Maria, you have chosen a very noble profession. You don't need to compete in a pageant to show the world your beauty. Your soul and caring heart do that every day. The sparkle in your eyes, the comfort of your touch, and the music of your words project beauty and grace far beyond what any camera can capture.

Maria link

9/28/2015 05:25:56 pm

Dear Sha,
You say the kindest things. Because you're true blue, your comments mean the world.
Hope you have a good week.
Love you, mar

Genna East

9/27/2015 11:38:56 am

Maria...we need more nurses like you, my dear friend, and like Kelly. In many ways, you are Miss America...at least, who I think she embodies in beauty of the mind, heart and spirit, which create a physical beauty that is undeniable. The path of a truly inspiring woman is strewn with roses -- but they fall behind her, never in front. (The media's negativity is due to a "ratings" war created by and some very foolish nincompoops, I'm afraid.) Congratulations to Kelly. :-)

Martie link

9/28/2015 03:48:43 pm

Congratulations to Kelley Johnson, and to you, Maria. I see a lot of you in her :)

Maria link

9/28/2015 05:41:43 pm

Genna, I am so touched by your feedback~ which means so much more than any panel of pageant judges. Thanks for your insightful perspectives as well.

Martie, Such a joy to have you back home and thanks for this beautiful comment.

Wishing you both a peaceful weekend.
Love and hugs, mar

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