![]() Through my early adulthood, I was painfully shy. If someone complimented my appearance or accomplishments, I was uncomfortable. Today, I see where introverted people can be unjustly perceived as self- absorbed, superior, even conceited. As a Nursing Instructor, I observe students of all ages feeling very preoccupied, stressed, even self - absorbed. Both extroverts and introverts feel as though all eyes are on them. They can be unduly harsh and critical of themselves, for example with an oral presentation. In actuality, things that are of glaring concern to others may not even be noticed by others. I am reminded of an Aesop's Fable from my younger days, 'The Gnat and The Bull." The Gnat and the Bull: Aesop's FableOnce there was a silly gnat who kept buzzing about the head of a bull. Finally he settled himself down upon one of the bull's horns. "Pardon me, Mr Bull." he said, "if I am inconveniencing you. If my weight in any way is burdensome to you, pray say so, and I will be off in a moment." "Oh, never trouble your head about that," replied the bull. "It is all the same to me whether you go or stay. To tell you the truth, I was not even aware that you were there." THE SMALLER THE MIND, THE GREATER THE CONCEIT! Lesson learned, time after time. The older the mind (as in yours truly) the easier it is to laugh at the minor wrinkles, of any kind, that life likes to toss us on a daily basis. Thanks to my South African sistah, Martie Coetser-Posyn, who recently shared this song with me, knowing I was in need of a dose of humor with a splash of perspective. Take a look at this video of pure joy--at least to me! A happy introductionMeet Adalyn Marie, who joined us at 9:45 P.M. on July 31st - the beautiful daughter of my nephew, Jared and his lovely wife, Jenne. ShoutOutsUntil next week, sending you smiles and sunshine,
mar
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Dear Mareer,
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Susie
8/2/2017 09:03:58 am
Love that video!!! and the sweet baby!!!
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Mike
8/2/2017 09:42:44 am
Happy Wednesday Maria - Aesop's Fables were always on my reading list. An old Harvard Classics copy happens to be sitting on the kitchen table, as I search for inspiration or Planet of the Ape size ideas.
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Oh, congrats on being a new auntie! (Or great-auntie? I get so confused when it comes to cousins, 2nd cousins, once removed, great nephews, etc. lol)
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"Struck up"... LOL, not MY Cynthia. I'm grateful you can relate to what I'm saying as I tend to live in my head as well (to the chagrin of a person or ten in my world)...!
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Barbara Jones
8/2/2017 10:33:42 am
Hi Dear Maria, I am in possession of many lotions and potions; however, I doubt their effectiveness despite the staggering costs. Congratulations on the arrival of dear Adalyn. I have been blue for the last few days due to the death of Charlie Gard. A little one just wanting to experience life. He has had Pope Frances praying for Charlie and his parents. One could not do better than this. There is little to do after diagnosis of a mitochondrial disease. It is so important to love people while we can.
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Dear Barbara,
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I remember those days of feeling self-conscious - always checking in the mirror for spinach in my teeth or mascara failure. Now I move among the invisible in the crowd. It's liberating. Loved the Aesop's Fable and the video song (which I'll be singing all day long, thank you).
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8/2/2017 12:50:04 pm
Prof. Mahreer,
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8/2/2017 01:17:48 pm
Wow. I’d written a reply and suddenly lost it. Perhaps for the best! . Well, let me try again. You may wish the loss had bee permanent. haha. Forgive me the volume of response. You’re that inspiring! Lots of food for thought.
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Dearest Nellieanna,
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8/2/2017 02:42:56 pm
Hi Maria...
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Hahaha! That video takes the cake. Can't hide it, better make peace with it. Indeed!
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Dear Martie,
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8/2/2017 11:32:54 pm
Hi Maria,
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8/3/2017 11:57:07 am
Thanks for the lovely response,Maria! What an honor to be compared to your beloved Mom!
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8/3/2017 03:08:05 pm
Dear Maria,
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