When missing Mom...This past weekend, I started thinking about Mom more than usual and missing her wise and grounding presence in my life. I know this is normal. I have learned to welcome these times and actually sit with them. In May, 2010, I lost my best pal when Mom died suddenly--thankfully, with no pain. I turn to music often. It reaches deep into my heart, oftentimes reminding me of people, places and times in my life. This weekend I pulled out my Dolly Parton and Johnny Cash CDs. I was transported to my childhood, where many an evening was spent listening to country and western tunes... The Man in Black was first crooned by Johnny in 1971 - I was ten years old. Listening to this song, I am forever struck by the lyrics--truly timeless. Mom loved this and forty years later, it's my favorite as well. Dolly Parton released this song in 1974, I Will Always Love You. I merely loved this tune as a child. As an adult, I understand its meaning and believe this is her best song ever.
This book provides ways of assisting you in gently taking care of yourself while feeling the pain and loneliness of grief. You will be reminded that there is no distinct course of action and time-frame for healing. You will realize that your changeable energy and emotions are understandable, even normal. There is also a companion Calendar-Journal that can go with Vicki's workbook. It’s free, downloadable and available in the WarnerWords Books & Gifts Shoppe. I can think of no better gift than support and hope. This book provides both, along with the reminder that you are never alone in your feelings. ShoutOutsBetween now and next edition, be good to yourself...
mar
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Verlie Burroughs
5/9/2018 08:12:12 am
Thank you mar, I lost my Mom in 2010 too, and Mother's day is indeed a bittersweet time.
Indeed, for several reasons Mother's day is a difficult time full of good and difficult memories. This will by my first Mother's day without my (our) mother who fell ill this time last year. It was also the week that my friend Paula went into the hospital and received devastating news. There is a bright spot on the horizon since we still have Jim's mom and she has started communicating with him regularly over the past year. We are also blessed to have my step-mother who is lovely in every way and remains independent at 92 years of age. This post reminds me to call her and tell her I love her.
Mike
5/9/2018 10:03:08 am
Happy Mother's Day to all those present and departed for all that you have done. Hello mar - it has been a long time since i listened to Johnny Cash. 5/9/2018 11:00:18 am
Prof. Mahreer, 5/9/2018 02:07:53 pm
Losing a love one is one of the toughest things a person will ever experience. The Fall of my thirteenth year was brutal. First, my mother passed away. She had been my entire life and the emptiness that followed was almost impossible to cast off. A month later, I watched in shock as my best friend was killed by a car traveling over 60 mph. I can still see his body being thrust upon the hood and then flipped under the car as it came to a stop. I ran to him, his body under the car but his head showing from behind the passenger side front tire, and saw the blood coming from his ear. I knew then that he wasn't going to make it. Six months later, my dad remarried and brought two new kids into the house. In a period of less than eight months, my whole world had changed. Yet, I pushed forward knowing that I couldn't give up. Grief can be a monster, yet, all monsters have a weak spot. I continued as I had, working to make people laugh and forget their troubles. In doing so, I learned that the woes can never be forgotten. But, they can be put off to the side where they can be visited from time to time, but not allowed to control one's life. Yes, there is life after death, some believe for both parties, others only recognize it there for the living. There is always a smile awaiting one that is looking for one and comfort to be shared between those that care. Sometimes, one just has to get their head out of the muck to see it. Luv ya, Sis!
Dear Mareer, Sweet Mar. Oh what a date this is. I hope that you know that you are loved, you are incredible, and I know that your mama was so proud of who you have become. ❤️ To that end, I love your musical selections. You definitely have a penchant for great music and lovely tunes. It is said that music can elevate the soul and lift us into higher consciousness. So sing on, my friend. May you find comfort and love as you move through this anniversary date. And when it gets tough, just listen to those heartfelt songs. Sending you big hugs🤗🤗🤗
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